So you've been invited to a wedding. Maybe it's at our fabulous authentic barn venue or maybe it's somewhere else. No matter. Here are a few tips to help you decide what to wear. 1. It DOES matter if you're black or white, well, at least concerning your attire. Despite what the late, great Michael Jackson sang, it does actually matter if you wear black or white on your friend's day. Traditionally, you should avoid both. You don't wear white because, well, that's the bride